and all through the house mommy was stirring, and the child did grouse new clothes laid on the couch with great care a flurry of pink curlers wrapped in her hair
the duo left the house in a hurry unaware of the madness i was yet to worry i kissed her goodbye and went on my way what emergencies i would see today?
busy at work, passing out tylenol the overhead speaker said i had a call the doctor said "it's your mom" then helpfully added "on speakerphone"
when unto my ears an assault was commenced it was still early but she was incensed "did you know she needed a uniform?" she shrieked "no i did not" i feebly squeaked
for only that morning, an apparent oversight the sign said orientation would be that night should i have used my spidey sense to predict a calamity such as this?
"the teacher we met is gone, too!" "well i'm at work! what do you expect me to do?" "she has no sweater in here, its freezing cold!" with 110 heat index how could i know?
the call soon ended and work proceeded no telling what else my child was needing for another two hours i toiled away same crap, different day
the overhead speaker calls out my name i walk to the phone with a sense of shame that is when the stranger said "where is corene's lunch today?"
my mouth agape in total shock a sharp intake of breath, unable to talk my baby at school without any food "but i didn't know!" i tried to argue
there i sat, thinking what a nightmare when the voice on the phone said "this isn't daycare" my eyes grew wide and my voice got tight when i hissed "was i going to learn that tonight?"
the lady persisted in her interrogation the existence of shot records called in to question i insisted the papers were already there yes, she replied "but this isn't daycare"
all of a sudden my eye started to twitch because this lady was being a bitch! i couldn't believe she talked that way like it wasn't already a f-ked up day
away the phone flew with a clatter my coworkers asked what was the matter "my baby is at school with no food! and that !@%%^ on the phone was super rude!"
school orientation without even a day's notice? and yet they expect me to already know this? W-T-F? how could they not tell me there is NO LUNCH!
all of this news hit my heart like napalm standing at work feeling like a bad mom why is orientation the first day of school? their lack of planning is very uncool
and who is this troll on the phone? with attitude and disdain in her tone it must be because she has never met me if she comes to my ER i'll give her light therapy
later that evening next to my mom i listened to them talk on and on finally they say "you must pack lunch" or we feed your kid ramen and charge you two bucks
after the meeting i head for the door because now i need to go to the store and lo- who should be standing there but a fat old lady with gray hair
her big fake smile she flashed at me waddling towards me at low speed she said "i'm the one who called you today" i need the papers if you want her to stay
"this is not daycare" she said once again in my mind i wipe off her shit eating grin instead, i say "i'm glad we're in church- when i see you again i'll have some unchristian words"
so, *that* was what happened our her first day of kindergarten!! this much anticipated childhood milestone gone terribly awry in a series of "wtf" moments.
i kept wondering what was up with orientation because we do it every year but this year i had to stay for the school stuff. i even asked the teacher we met at the kindergarten meeting 3 months ago what the plan was for monday, etc. that would have been a nice time to tell me the actual school year started on thursday, or that she wasn't the kinder teacher anymore- but i digress.
so thursday i walk in and see the signs for orientation that night. i guess mom had gone to see her off to the school building which is when she calls me to ask about the uniform, etc. and then literally twohours after that call the biatchy school secretary calls me and gives me all this CRAP. i specifically turned in all the stuff the school needed through the daycare like i was instructed to do. after i get off the phone with the evil troll woman, i call the daycare secretary to get some info.
as it happens, she had offered to make copies of the kids' files to give to the school but the evil troll woman declined. apparently she felt the kids needed to make a 'clean break' from the daycare and thus the file was 15 ft away in a separate building but the parents need to give her the copies. which is fine, but again, how was i supposed to know that??? and how dare you talk to me like i'm an idiot when i got 12 hrs notice for the school orientation AND its the first freaking day of school????? argh!
i saw her today to give her c's file and once again "this isn't daycare."
i told her (and in an email, the school director)
1. she is RUDE 2. that is unacceptable 3. this is a private school, i'm a *customer* and this is our 3rd year there so she is NOT going to talk crazy to me because i don't have to have my kid there, i choose to. period. 4. that i expect to be treated respectfully in all future interactions. 5. i think it is totally backwards to hold orientation & meet the teacher AFTER school has started so that the new parents can get acquainted. i've been shelling out dough for two years! you start your kid in the middle of the year- oh well. the parents that are choosing to continue with the school really ought to be given more consideration.
i mean really. its a military community. starting a new school in the middle of the year is just part of life. its not as if they hold quarterly orientations to get everyone up to speed, kwim?
i do really like the school and evil troll woman is the only employee i've ever met there that i had any problems with. their last minute notice approach is not exactly new but i understand that they are a small school so i just deal with it. they are always very good about communicating in every other regard.
you had better c/p that poem for corene's baby book!
that woman sounds like a beast...i hope you don't need to interact with her much more. i love that you stuck up for yourself--i probably would have cried:)
-- Edited by Corey on Saturday 28th of August 2010 09:32:04 AM
and what sucks even more is that even after i read the poem in my head to the "twas the night before christmas" tune, i KEPT reading every post after that in that same tone, hahahaha!
Tab- that just sucks. My head would have been spinning by the end of the day.
I'm so glad you sent that email and cc'ed the higher ups. That lady needs to take a class in empathy and remember that everyone is trying to do their best for their kids.
Hope things get better from here on out! And so good to see you around again!