An amicable separation and divorce are one thing and I know that you were trying to be an adult about everything but with this new info, I would feel like IT'S ON!!!
I would hit him where it hurts...his wallet.
Sorry that's awful advice but I'm so pissed for you.
you do not deserve this treatment. i am so sorry you've been betrayed so horribly. i will be praying and praying and praying like crazy for you, evan & dylan.
we're here when you need us.
please let me know if there is anything at all i can do to help.
vent away. you deserve to. you are a wonderful, strong woman and you will get through this. i hope he realizes what a selfish dick he is to do this to his wife and kids. i am so so sorry you are stuck dealing with the mistakes he made.
I'm so sorry Kate. I don't know what to say - unbelievable and his attitude is even more unbelievable. Lots of hugs, you WILL get through this and move on, he does not deserve you or your tears. HUGS.
Oh no, I'm soooo sorry. I don't know what to say. Many hugs and I will keep you in my prayers for strength. You got your boys...you are right, that is the best part.
(eta: this is Jill, formerly Curlz03)
-- Edited by Jilly on Thursday 13th of August 2009 07:36:25 AM
Kate, I am sooooo shocked and sorry! I don't even know what to say!
I feel like I might have missed a few things after reading some of the other responses.........I am so sorry that you and your Dh have been going through some hard times! :hugs
I will be praying for you and your boys. I am so, so sorry!
Kate I am so sorry. I am glad that you are standing up for yourself and your boys. You won't regret that. Unfortunately there is no magic way to make all the pain, hurt, and betrayal to quickly go away. Just know we are here and vent as much as you need. I will keep you in my prayers too. :hug:
EXACTLY what I was thinking. I am so sorry that you've been so wronged. There are few things on earth worse than to be betrayed like this.