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ic...sometimes i wish i could tell my kids to stfu.

ic...i love them to pieces, but i am so effing tired of their bickering.

ic...that my husband wants to transfer to a different position within his company.

ic...that this would mean he would be happier, but it would be a huge pay cut (like 20k) and i really can't fathom how we can afford that.

ic...we have been arguing about it A LOT lately.

ic...he thinks i am making him sacrfice his happiness and mental health for $/security.

ic...i think when he realizes how broke we would be he would be even unhappier and mentally unhealthy than he is now.

ic...i want to tell him to suck it up for the well being of his family.

ic...today is his birthday and thank God for pinterest crafts and cake ideas b/c i had nothing prepared.

ic...i need to go finish prepping for our guests, but i really needed to vent!

 

 

 

 



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ic I'm glad to see this back.

ic I don't have time right now to really post but I'm excited for it anyway. :)

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ic...that my husband knew I wasn't a fabulous housekeeper when he married me, but he still thinks I should live up to his mother's ridiculously high standards

ic...that when I visit my IL's it drives me batty that if I leave something out only to go to the bathroom, by the time I return, it will have been put away or set aside

ic...that I am more than ready for the kids to go back to school in two weeks

ic...that I don't feel guilty sleeping until 8:30 every day of summer

ic..that I'm so grateful my parents invited the kids and me out to dinner tonight. No cooking!! (Mark's working.)

ic...I'm happy Corey started this one!!

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ic. I really just do not feel pregnant

ic. I'm nervous about everything this time around

ic. with every pg it seems to be harder work and I have harder recoveries

ic. I felt for long time that my pg with B broke me

ic. it's probably just me getting older

ic. my ob is going to send me for a level 2 u/s at 18 weeks cause he doesn't have a very clear u/s machine

ic. I'm excited about being able to see more than just grey fuzz, but also terrified of what they will see

ic. I am doing ok keeping my sugars under control but still am worried

ic. that is it for now

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I.C. I found an invitation to my SIL's baby shower for my Mom and I didn't get one. I am pretty sure it was because she got pregnant while I couldn't and she thought this way my feelings would be spared.... but not getting one makes me feel even worse about everything... like I am to broken to get through a baby shower.

I.C. tomorrow is my nephew's first birthday... to me that marks a year of trying unsuccessfully to get pregnant because his big brother stayed with us while he was being born and this made DH bring up trying for another kid.

I.C. I wish DH had never changed his mind about wanting one kid.... because then I wouldn't be here in this place.

I.C. I am sitting here typing this sitting next to my husband and we are on our separate computers and he doesn't even notice the tears streaming down my cheeks. He is going on and on talking about something and I'm just pretending to listen giving the appropriately timed nods.

I.C. I don't know where all this came from it just came pouring out... I guess I've been holding it all in for sometime....

I.C. now I feel like a whiner and a complainer.

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-- Edited by apies on Sunday 21st of August 2011 08:53:02 AM

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LucsMama wrote:

I.C. I found an invitation to my SIL's baby shower for my Mom and I didn't get one. I am pretty sure it was because she got pregnant while I couldn't and she thought this way my feelings would be spared.... but not getting one makes me feel even worse about everything... like I am to broken to get through a baby shower.

I.C. tomorrow is my nephew's first birthday... to me that marks a year of trying unsuccessfully to get pregnant because his big brother stayed with us while he was being born and this made DH bring up trying for another kid.

I.C. I wish DH had never changed his mind about wanting one kid.... because then I wouldn't be here in this place.

I.C. I am sitting here typing this sitting next to my husband and we are on our separate computers and he doesn't even notice the tears streaming down my cheeks. He is going on and on talking about something and I'm just pretending to listen giving the appropriately timed nods.

I.C. I don't know where all this came from it just came pouring out... I guess I've been holding it all in for sometime....

I.C. now I feel like a whiner and a complainer.


ic that does NOT make you a whiner and a complainer. just human.

 



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LucsMama wrote:

I.C. I found an invitation to my SIL's baby shower for my Mom and I didn't get one. I am pretty sure it was because she got pregnant while I couldn't and she thought this way my feelings would be spared.... but not getting one makes me feel even worse about everything... like I am to broken to get through a baby shower.

I.C. tomorrow is my nephew's first birthday... to me that marks a year of trying unsuccessfully to get pregnant because his big brother stayed with us while he was being born and this made DH bring up trying for another kid.

I.C. I wish DH had never changed his mind about wanting one kid.... because then I wouldn't be here in this place.

I.C. I am sitting here typing this sitting next to my husband and we are on our separate computers and he doesn't even notice the tears streaming down my cheeks. He is going on and on talking about something and I'm just pretending to listen giving the appropriately timed nods.

I.C. I don't know where all this came from it just came pouring out... I guess I've been holding it all in for sometime....

I.C. now I feel like a whiner and a complainer.


Hugs! Not whiny. Like Juni said, human! On my phone so I'll be short but I'm thinking of you!

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ic...you are not a whiner or a complainer, kari!

ic...i found it amusing how similar men can be (ie not noticing you are crying when he is right next to you)

ic...i can totally imagine dh doing that.

ic...idt i knew you were pregnant lucy, so congratulations!

 



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ic.... it felt good to get that all out Saturday night
ic... sometimes I try to unlock my front door by pressing the unlock button on my car remote and then actually try the handle on the door
ic... I start actually working on wensday night. I have to leave before Lucas is home from school and I am super nervous about DH being the parent on duty for dinner and homework. He is a great Dad I would just feel better about it if it was a weekend night.... I won't get home until after they are asleep.
ic... I am SUPER nervous about going from SAHM to Working Mom

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