havent heard of the book (looks great though!! let us know!) but one of the women who wrote a review on here (gail sheehy) is my childhood orthodontist's wife/author - RANDOM.
I haven't read it, but it sounds interesting! I know so many women (myself included a lot of the time) who do "everything" and the men just coast along. And I think most people don't really want it to be that way, but really don't know how to change it either.