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SerenityNow


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He's been having an affair
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First of all, I want to warn you that there will be an amount of cursing to follow. Because, my dh is a.................................................























Son of a bitch fucking piece of shit no good lame ass fuck face. furiousfuriousfuriousfuriousfurious


Anyway, I found the phone bill, 3000 texts to said number. I called said number, she told me everything. They are in love. He even texted her at Evan's b-day party. When I confronted him he yelled at me and laughed at me and asked if it got my attention.

I don't know this man or who he has become.

But, I will try my darndest to be civil even though the urges to claw out his eyes are strong.

I was a bit evil when I blocked her number from him and I am the only one on the account. Whatever, I was mad.

I will move forward, I will just celebrate that my gut was right and this man didn't deserve my love at all. I know I said I didn't care if he was seeing someone, that part was somewhat right. What I do care about is the lies, the "love", and the fact that he is someone I thought incapable of deception. My respect for him is utterly gone.

I am glad he gave me the best parts of him. Evan and Dylan.

Oh, and my feelings are one long bleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep, cry, bleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep, cry.



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oh hugs honey. i dont know what to say, but I am glad you are moving on without him. he does not deserve you.

we are always here for you to vent

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Oh crap.  Im so sorry.  What an a$%^$$%. 

Im angry and pissed, disapointed and sad for you.

:hugs

You will get through this a better person, he on the other hand will not.  Hang in there. 

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dorian


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holy shit Kate.

I wish I had the right things to say, but I am at a total loss.

fuck that...i'd go ahead and get mighty pissed because I think sadness and denial are next (or what are the steps of that process....)

anyways, get mad...and then, move on.  you're right, you got the best parts.  your 2 beautiful boys.

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Oh Kate....I am soooo sorry!! You deserve so much better :hug

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Oh no!  You deserve way better than him!!!! I can't believe he did that to you...so wrong!

You have us all to support you and behind you all the way!!

*hugs*

This makes me sooooooooo mad!!!!!! Wow, unbelieveable!!!!


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dorian wrote:

holy shit Kate.

I wish I had the right things to say, but I am at a total loss.

fuck that...i'd go ahead and get mighty pissed because I think sadness and denial are next (or what are the steps of that process....)

anyways, get mad...and then, move on.  you're right, you got the best parts.  your 2 beautiful boys.


this is pretty much exactly what i was going to say.

cheating is the easy way out.  what a man does is step up, tell you he wants out, and handle it the right way.

he is a piece of shit and you are too good for him.

vent away, my friend.  we are all here for you. :hug:

 



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kate, i am so sorry!!

know that we are here as you go through this. i am sure your emotions will be up and down over the next few months.

i wish i had the right things to say, i do not, however know we are ALL here to support you.

i am so glad you did get his best parts in his two boys.

jack a$%U(@PIKTNGLU#

hugs

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omg...i dont have any words of wisdom for you, but you know we're all here for you.

(((hugs)))

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Wow.  What a piece of crap!!

I'm so sorry it had to end this way.  Know that we are all here for you when you need us.  

*hugs* 



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what an asshole! And I can't believe when you confronted him he fucking laughed and asked if it got your attention. I would have punched him in the face.

You are too good for him.

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OMG, Kate, I'm so, so sorry. You're totally right that you already got the best parts of him.

Ugh, what an ass! I am LIVID for you.

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Raging for you.  unbelievable.  I'm so sorry you have to deal with this.

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furious

I'm sorry you are having to go through this Kate.
You and your boys will be in my prayers.

I hope it all works out to what is best for all of you after everything has settled down.

:hug:



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omg, kate.  i am SO sorry for this.  you do not deserve to have to go through this cry

what a fuck face for being so deceptive.  you deserve better than that.  i will be thinking and praying for you.  i know you will be fine in time.  you are a strong woman, and you will make it through this. 

this is so unfair, and to your boys too.  i'm glad your boys have such a great mom.  they will be fine because of you.

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oh wow. how totally painful kate. i'm really sorry, and i'm glad you came to the conclusion to get out of the marriage before even knowing about this.
my best friend is just finalizing a divorce from her cheating ex and i know the pain she's been through.
it's very hard.
we're here.


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I am so sorry, Kate.

That is a real shitty thing for him to do. I totally understand how you feel in terms of the lies. I am sure it helps justify things in his head.



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He's just cruel Kate. Though you will be better off without him of course your angry and will probably feel some more emotions as the days go on. I hate what he did to you. I am so glad you have Evan and Dylan, do what you do for them and it can't be wrong. I'm so sorry. Many hugs and prayers coming your way.

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Kate, I'm so sorry you're going through this. You and the boys deserve so much better.

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Kate I am so sorry.  I am glad that you are standing up for yourself and your boys.  You won't regret that.  Unfortunately there is no magic way to make all the pain, hurt, and betrayal to quickly go away.  Just know we are here and vent as much as you need.  I will keep you in my prayers too.  :hug:

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